All posts by Sunny Bridge

I love travel, seeing and photographing new places, meeting new people, learning languages (focusing on French, although I've recently started also learning Spanish). In the past few years, I've been discovering the joys of poetry, both reading it and writing it. You can reach me at sunnybridge@msn.com.

Learning to Speak

I’m not exactly sure where I’m headed . . .

Les jardins suspendus de Marquessac, Vézac, France – September 2011

but I do know education opens doors.

La Rochelle, France – April 2014

I’m thinking a lot about language, specifically, these days: poetic language, certainly, as I’ve just finished one poetry class and begun another, but also because I’ve started learning Spanish. Even if I never make it back to Mexico . . .

Playa del Carmen – January 2011

. . . the learning itself is worth the effort.

I absolutely won’t stop French. I’m loving the progress I’ve made and there’s still plenty to learn. But I’ve finally achieved a level that won’t be compromised by beginning another related language. I’d thought about Italian, but Spanish is more useful here in Colorado, so Italian will have to get in line.

So far, it doesn’t feel like such an uphill climb this time.

Castelnaud, France – September 2011

French is a big help, and bonus: fewer accents to remember in Spanish.

I love kids’ fearlessness with language. They’ll repeat anything without hesitation. These darling girls, now in high school, never lived nearby.

Granddaughters Bailey and Felicity (with remnants of face paint) – October 2011

I didn’t get to enjoy much of their early speaking years, so I’m definitely making the most of any time I have with Beckett and Brooks.

Beckett and Brooks – photo by Katie Barnett Photography*

The quality of Beckett’s and even Brooks’ French pronunciation keeps surprising me. I know it has to do with brain plasticity (or something else I know nothing about), but I wonder if it might also be because they haven’t yet convinced themselves that it’s hard. They take it as it comes, one sound, one word at a time. There’s a lesson in that.

In this time of unending, heartbreaking news, I’m trying to speak kindly in all languages I know or attempt. And more than ever, I’m seeking out kindness in the voices I listen to, wherever my path takes me.

I recommend the podcast “Everything Happens with Kate Bowler” or check out her website here. The best introduction to it may be the interview I heard on another podcast that is absolutely worth your time: “On Being with Krista Tippett” here’s a link to it.

I hope they inspire you, refresh you, and bring a smile to your face. Wishing you, as always, grace and peace–and kindness.

 

Hello, Fall!

You feel a lot like summer. Things are still green and hot here, though in the 80s rather than 90s, and the evenings and mornings are cooler. A few leaves are starting to turn, but not many near me. Days like this are still to come . . .

Beckett – October 2021 – photo by Jennifer Mosley

It’s been years since I’ve been to Sunapee in the fall–David was the helpful one for closing-up tasks–but I have many great memories.

Lake Sunapee – 2015

Although the leaves here on the Front Range aren’t doing much yet, the sunset last night looked like a river of gold coming down from the heavens.

September Sunset

And tonight a full moon was rising just as fireworks were going off about a hundred yards from my deck.

CSU Homecoming Friday Night Lights 2023
CSU Homecoming Friday Night Lights 2023

Even the grocery store is sporting fall color.

September has other things going for it, too, like picture day for the boys.

Brooks – Ready for picture day – September 2023 – photo by Chelsea Johnson

Plus new classes and loads of poetry events. One of my poems finally placed first, this one for a poem in a specific form in the Columbine Poets of Colorado annual contest. Woohoo! Almost as good as a gold star! 😉 Mine is a concrete poem (what used to be called a shaped poem). If you’d like to read it, click on the title: Pears.

So while I wait for a bit more of this . . .

I’m savoring time with dear ones, unexpected beauty, happy surprises, and as always, God’s grace and peace.  I hope you are too!

East Meets West

. . . and vice versa, of course. Mid-August, people traveled from far and near to celebrate the wedding of niece Ellie and her now-husband, Vivek, whose extended family came all the way from India. It was held at this magnificent historic New Hampshire hotel, Mountain View Grand Resort & Spa.

Mountain View Grand Resort & Spa – Whitefield, New Hampshire

It’s a long way to travel for a weekend, so I started the week at Lake Sunapee, where the sun allowed only one day of paddle-boarding, but it was beautiful all the same.

Sunapee fern – Photo by Courtney Bridge

Friday morning, the 18th, the Sunapee contingent, including Helen . . .

Helen Bridge – 19 August 2023 – looking chic and amazing at 95

. . . headed north into the White Mountains.

View of the White Mountains from the front porch of the Mountain View Grand

The weekend was packed with charming people and gorgeous color.

Flowers for Friday’s Sangeet
Saturday reception bouquet
Ellie and Vivek during Friday night’s Hindu ceremony – photo by Courtney
Mountain View Grand Garden – venue (in the background) for Saturday’s Episcopal ceremony

There was beauty all around to appreciate. But a few highlights had nothing to do with décor or nature, like the Sunapee cousins’ dance–choreographed by a friend of the bridal couple–for the Friday night Sangeet.  Considering this was well into the evening and a few cocktails may have been consumed before we took the stage, we weren’t bad. Cute kids always help.

Cousins Charlie Ruedig and Morgan Hunter ready for Saturday’s Baraat procession

A few non-dancing family members took videos. This one is short and accessible enough to load here. Plus, you get a glimpse of the bridal couple. I left the carpet shot at the end so you can hear all the wild cheering. Just saying. We PRACTICED. 

“Sunapee Swagger” Sangeet Dance

If you found me (in the middle), you may have . . . suggestions for improvement. 😉 Yes, I know I need to work on my “Sprinkler” and my clap counting, but still. It was SO MUCH FUN. 

Now I’m back from the east (coast, that is), and this past Sunday, north met south–or mostly reconnected–for a neighborhood happy hour, and it was also delightful. We all live on one smallish, T-shaped street, which makes it manageable to sort of know everyone. I love that. 

I was sorry to miss Beckett’s birthday while I was gone, but it looks like he had a pretty good weekend without me!

Beckett’s 4 now! Photo by Chelsea (I think)

So this month, I’m wishing for you times of connection with new friends and old. Cheers!

And as always, grace and peace.

Roundabout

Roundabouts are becoming more and more common in northern Colorado, and since here in my hometown I tend to know where I’m going, it’s a simple (sort of) matter of choosing the right gap to enter the flow of cars.

In France, they’re everywhere. David and I had plenty of experience with them: on the way to Saint-Émilion. . .

Saint-Émilion, France – June 2013

and Château des Baudry. . .

Château des Baudry, Monestier, France – June 2013

and Tours and the châteaux of the Loire Valley.

Since I was navigating, I had to try to read the little signs as they flashed by on our way around. Sometimes it took an extra lap or two to find the road we wanted, but we eventually made it, hence the photos. You’d think David would have been a roundabout pro by the time we headed here. . .

Saratoga Springs, New York – August 2014

to Saratoga Springs, New York, in August of 2014, but no. We encountered one, the bulk of it only slightly raised from the surrounding roadway, maybe a small planting of something or other in the very center. David accidentally drove right over it, to the horrified fascination of all onlookers, myself included. Fortunately, on all our adventures with Jacky and Pascale in France, Jacky drove. Merci encore une fois !

Mostly, David and I found the right road. Jacky always did. But life sometimes flings us off the roundabout and onto a road we didn’t see coming and wouldn’t have chosen. I’ve had news recently of several friends facing heartbreaking situations, and others suffering pain or worrying uncertainty. Maybe you have, too. I pray grace,  peace, strength and comfort for them every day, and that those of us in their orbit would know how to help.

I do know a bit about sudden sharp turns. David would have been 71 today, and he is still so sorely missed.

David – July 2017

For those who knew and loved him, I pray your day is filled with wonderful memories of him, even if you didn’t get to witness the unforgettable roundabout kerfuffle.

Here’s hoping your roundabouts and the roads they send you out upon are navigable, with many shining moments of beauty and joy. Bonne route !

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